Monday, November 24, 2014

Learning Experience

It’s funny that I am struggling to come up with a “learning experience” to write about as I think back about the last couple of months.  There are so many, and yet so few that seem important.  What I’ve figured out over the last year and a half is that tests, grades, and shoving facts down throats somehow have become more important than actually giving students the experience of learning.  This is the exact reason that I am thankful for my non-science classes (although they are becoming fewer and fewer as I finish my core classes).  Don’t get me wrong; biology is awesome.  I’d even argue that it’s the most important thing to know about.  It’s just that when classes become more painful than rewarding, it’s hard to actually enjoy any type of learning experience.
Having that said, one class in particular has opened my mind more to other ways of thinking about life.  Literature and Civilizations, as horribly boring as it sounded when I signed up for it, has turned out to be rewarding in the sense that I do not have to categorize everything as black or white, fact or fiction, nucleophile or base.  Instead I’m encouraged to just think.  And believe it or not, it’s perfectly okay if what I think is not the same thing as what the person next to me thinks.  There is no right or wrong, but instead we discuss relevant issues that make a difference in the world.
Specifically, I want to write about a recent learning experience in that class that concerns Henry David Thoreau.  First I learned the irritating fact that his name was originally David Henry and I was ready to throw in the towel just because of that.  Reading parts (and thankfully not all) of Walden was an interesting experience because it made me think about the world from a different point of view, even if it was only for a few minutes at a time as I read it or as we discussed it.  Thoreau talked about living a simple, thoughtful, and “deliberate” life free of distractions.  He encouraged people to be themselves, and not simply conform to society without questioning why you are who you are or why you are doing what you are doing.  Although I can’t say that everything he suggested we do is something I agree with, he did have thought-provoking points, which really was the reason he wrote anything in the first place.  For example, he makes a point that he cannot stay where he is any longer because he has many more lives to live.  Everywhere else I’ve heard you only have one life, you only live once (YOLO), and you better live it up, but Thoreau throws out the idea of living many lives in a lifetime by continuing to change and not getting stuck in a rut.  Not a life changing thought for me at this point in my life, but still an interesting thought to ponder. Reading parts of Walden was eye opening and thought provoking, and even though it did not change the way I view life it is still an important learning experience.

Learning experiences such as this are not typical as a Biology major, so I think that it is important to have these types of classes that teach people how to think about everyday life and remember that the world isn’t always black and white. 

Meeting with Noor

I had the opportunity to meet with my conversation partner, Noor, last week.  We had planned on meeting for lunch as we have for the previous meetings, but this time when she showed up she brought two friends with her.  I won’t lie; I was a little intimidated.  Three people who are in the process of learning English and then there’s me.  What am I supposed to talk about?  Should I assume they understand everything I’m saying, or should I talk slowly at the risk of rudely over exaggerating?  I had already made my way past these fears the first time meeting with Noor, but with new people I had no idea what to do.  It was quite obvious that I was the odd one out.
As we began to eat and talk, however, everything went really well.  One of the girls was more talkative than anyone I know, and her English was fantastic.  She wanted to talk about movies and TV shows (all of which were American and popular movies) which made it easy to carry on a conversation.  It was a lot of fun to see that it really wasn’t difficult to interact with them at all; in fact, it would probably be a lot of fun to hang out with them just as a typical group of friends. 
A couple interesting things were said that I thought were worth making note of.  After receiving our food one girl looked worried and asked the waiter to come back over and verify that there was no bacon (or any form of pork for that matter) on her baked potato.  This is one thing I had not thought about that would be difficult about living in another country.  We are insensitive to other people’s religious customs and it is not even on our radar when choosing restaurants or suggesting what they should get to eat.  It turned out perfectly fine and pork free, but it did make me more aware of what to watch out for and how to be more sensitive to other cultures.
Another funny comment was one that Noor made about the Halloween party she had a few weeks ago.  I simply asked if she did anything fun to celebrate, as it was something we discussed in a previous meeting, and she said “Oh yes we had a party!” I replied happily with a simple “oh that’s great!” or something of that nature, then she quickly said “Oh! Only with girls!”  I just found this interesting that she was quick to make that statement as if it was something important that I know.  It would not cross my mind that it would matter to have both men and women at a party; in fact, I would think it would be expected.   This is just another cultural difference that I would have been completely insensitive to if it had of been by own Halloween party.
Aside from these comments the meeting was fairly uninteresting but it was nice to get to know a few more people and learn a little bit more about where they are coming from and why they are here.  The girl who was bubbly and talkative said she is here for engineering of some sort, which apparently has great opportunities back in Saudi Arabia.  Again this is a somewhat interesting contrast to America where most (but not all of course) engineers tend to be males.
 Even when the conversations are not particularly meaningful or thought provoking it is still a great learning experience.   Overall it was another great meeting and I look forward to meeting with her again as the semester is coming to an end.